"It's entirely autobiographical," Grant says by telephone from London. "Everything that happened, happened to me. The process of writing it was painful and joyful by turns."
The movie, which opens Friday in New York and Los Angeles, begins with Grant's character, 11-year-old Ralph Compton, inadvertently witnessing his mother en flagrante with his father's best friend. When the beautiful, icy Lauren Compton (Miranda Richardson) runs off with her lover, her husband Harry Compton (Gabriel Byrne) seeks comfort in the bottle. Byrne is by turns charming, brooding and explosive. He bullies his son and even attempts to shoot him during one drunken rage.
"I knew my father's alcoholism, which was so hidden away, was a family secret we had to keep," Grant says. "He was by day such a charming, good guy. Only when he was overtaken by drink and his unrequited love for my mother did he become a demon."
The second Mrs. Compton, played by Emily Watson, is an eccentric feminist, given to wearing wildly patterned caftans and colorful turbans. She has no patience with the snooty, hypocritical officers' wives who cling to their traditions and petty biases, and ridicules their gossipy chitchat as sounding like "wah-wah."
"I loved Ruby," Watson says. "She was really good fun to play. She's very redemptive, and liberated. Richard's father remarried quite suddenly, but his real stepmother was Jewish South African. People wouldn't understand how ostracized she would have been in British-ruled Swaziland. Making her an American made her an outsider."
Grant's first screen role came in 1986 when he played a drunk, out-of-work actor living in a house bereft of heat, in "Withnail & I," which became a cult classic. He also appeared in Martin Scorcese's "The Age of Innocence."






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